
Selena Gomez and Benny Blanco. Allen Berezovsky/Getty Images
Selena Gomez and her friend, Benny BlancoThey announced their engagement after more than a year of dating.
“Eternity begins now,” Gomez, 32, captioned an Instagram post on Wednesday, December 11, showing off her engagement ring. Blanco, 36, celebrated the milestone, writing in the comments section, “Hey wait… that’s my wife.”
The couple worked together on a handful of songs – including their 2015 hit “Same Old Love” – before becoming romantically involved in 2023. After sparking dating rumors with Blanco, Gomez confirmed their relationship in December 2023, revealing that they had been dating for “six months.”
“He is my everything in my heart,” she wrote in an Instagram comment at the time. “He was the best thing that ever happened to me. The end. …He’s still better than anyone I’ve been with. Facts.”
The following month, a source exclusively shared Us weekly that Gomez has “never been with anyone like” Blanco.
“She loves the way Benny treats her: he’s so kind and considerate,” the insider said in January. “It’s been a very long time since friends have seen Selena so happy. She’s literally beaming.”
In February, Gomez shared a rare glimpse into her dynamic with Blanco. “Without going into too much detail, I think it’s just really important to meet someone who respects you,” she explained in an interview with Apple Music 1 Zane Lowe. “And I think it’s really nice to be able to rely on someone who understands the world I live in.”
She added: “But I have to say, overall it’s the safest thing I feel and it’s been really nice and I’ve only grown from it so it’s great.”
Blanco expressed his excitement about his romance with Gomez in May. “I wake up every day, look in the mirror and ask myself, ‘How did this happen?'” he continued to joke Today with Hoda and Jenna at the time. “But until someone finds out, weeeee!”
Later that month, sources revealed how serious Gomez and Blanco had become.
“He makes Selena laugh,” an insider said Us in May. “He makes her feel safe and happy. They both believe they have found the person they will be with forever.”
A second source, meanwhile, stressed that Gomez and Blanco are in it for the long haul. “She definitely thinks this relationship is going to be long-distance,” the insider noted. “They’ve talked about marriage and having children and they largely agree.”
“Selena has found the love of her life,” the second source added. “She’s ready to settle down.”
Before her engagement to Blanco, Gomez dated her Justin Bieber on and off from 2010 to 2018 and The Weeknd in 2017.